New Health Guide
It may be a little concerning if your baby won’t make eye contact with you. Those first gazes with your little one are so special, and some days you just want to gaze into their eyes. Eye contact is a part of infant development and some babies may take longer than others to notice your eyes. In general, there is a specific timeline for when these first gazes happen, but some are earlier or later than others. This article will help you understand the timeline and when you should be concerned. There are also some helpful tips on how to encourage eye contact.
It is very special when you look into your baby’s eyes, so when your baby won’t make eye contact you may worry a little. Eye contact is an important indicator of your baby’s neurological development, and communication development. When they make eye contact with a parent or caregiver, they are showing you that they understand the meaning behind seeing a face. Babies then read your facial expressions and get to know who everyone is.
Eye gaze development happens very early on, even though you may not notice. Hours after they are born, they are already looking at you at a close distance. By one year of age they will have most likely developed direct eye contact. Here is a timeline of eye gaze development:
7 Hours after Birth
Your baby has his or her eyes open and appears to study your face during waking periods.
6 to 10 Weeks of Age
You may notice your baby looking at you from a distance and catch your eyes for a moment. They may hold your gaze and widen their eyes in a look of surprise.
3 Months of Age
Your baby may now be following you around the room with his or her eyes. Distance vision is becoming clearer.
9 to 11 Months Old
Right before your baby’s first birthday, your baby will most likely have made eye contact with you. At this time, your baby should be able to follow your gaze and look at other things you are looking at.
Most experts agree that if your baby is not making eye contact in the first few months, don’t worry. Eye contact is only one of many developmental milestones that occur in the first year of life. Not all babies experience them at the same time and deficits are diagnosed only if a large group of milestones is missing. Your baby may avoid eye contact, but do things like roll over, look at toys, study distant objects with their eyes, and turn their head to sounds. It could also be that you aren’t noticing the times your baby is trying to make eye contact. Doctors say “Be patient.”
However, there are some different things that may be causing your baby to do this:
Even in the case of an older baby not making eye contact, your pediatrician may likely suggest a vision screening. Most often, it may just be a vision issue that needs addressed.
Sometimes, babies will hold off on one thing while they are trying to master another. Your baby may be moving along with things like using their hands, focusing on music and sounds, or rolling over. If your baby won’t make eye contact, make a list of other milestones they are reaching to show your doctor.
There has been new research and a lot of new moms’ concerns about signs of autism in infants earlier than one-year. Keep in mind that researchers found that the signs were an actual “decrease” in eye contact between 2 and 6 months old, rather than babies not making eye contact at all. What this means is that babies that showed early signs of autism actually made eye contact at one point, and then it stopped. If this happens, then you do have some room for concern.
Eye contact is mostly a learned skill and it needs to be taught by his or her primary caregivers. Some babies catch on more quickly, and others are slower to get it. Here are some tips to help things along:
It is a good idea to check with the pediatrician if you don’t notice the following after the age of 6 months:
